Showing posts with label Life Mentoring ®. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Life Mentoring ®. Show all posts

Friday, 22 January 2016

LMM® - the Life Mentoring Method® reviewed




Mind Body Spirit medicine, it’s a fact, this Multidisciplinary Medicine uses applied spirituality to bring about health. This concept medicine states that all illnesses result of a spiritual disturbance and complete healing of the illness can only be achieved through healing at the spiritual level.
Although conventional medical therapies have much control over the superficial expression of health in the physical body, they are not able to address the deeper root of each illness with the use of pills or surgery. The truth is that inner turmoil will be (somewhat) numb and will find a new form to express itself in that person's life, if left unaddressed. Mind Body Spirit Work is the discipline that truly engages the spiritual base of the illness/distress/unbalance. 

It is based on two important principles. Firstly: by sincerely wishing to connect to Earth/Universe/God (whichever of these entities relates to the person in question), we cultivate our Spiritual Self (our inner Mentor). Secondly: the quality and depth of our work towards our Inner Mentor is determined by the profound understanding that, somewhere along the line, we will feel exactly as we caused other (any and all) beings to feel.
To connect spiritually, we need to maintain truthful/loving intentions (empathy) towards all people, in all situations (including ourselves, our thoughts and feelings). To do so: our attention is to be focused inward; we must be aware that the mind creates many false stories and hides what really matters, whereas the heart never lies. It is our ability to feel that reveals the truth of our intentions. 

On the one hand any uncomfortable emotion is a sign that we have or had non-loving/non-truthful intentions. On the other hand, we must learn to validate our emotional state, we need to accept the inner discomfort and stay with the feeling inside of us. Eluding ourselves with busyness, drugs, medication, lies, food, social media and so forth are escape mechanisms that will allow our emotional conflict to eat us away from the inside: our perception will cause us to have negative thoughts, we will be overwhelmed, physical issues will arise (tiredness, pain, and indigestion). If signs of inner conflict are ignored, then structural illness occurs (tumors grow, organs deteriorate, arteries get blocked). Although these are the diseases that conventional medicine can modify more effectually, we must remember that the root cause is on the spiritual level. Instead of jumping to only fix that body part which is damaged, we must cultivate our Inner Mentor so as to gain insight into what needs changing.
Mind Body Spirit work consists of three areas, all of which must be pursued 24/7. Outer work is to review our life, identify and change all that lies outside of ourselves (relationships, job, home place) and has a negative impact on our emotional/spiritual health. Inner work consists of personal practices that will nourish our being whilst improving our focus inward, such as Yoga, Chi-Kung, Art, Journaling, Meditation, exercising outdoors in Nature. Applied inner work consists in maintaining the inward focus as we go about our day (awareness), finding a better understanding of our emotions and intentions, being clearer in the diagnosis of non-loving aspects in our life. Persistent application of Mind Body Spirit work, with a spiritual focal point, will bring about INsight, the experience of health and regeneration, knowledge of ourselves as loving souls, release of a burden that you did not realized that you carried.

One of the personal practices amongst inner work, is Chi-Kung (Qigong): an ancient form of Chinese Art, rooted on Taoism. Chi-Kung allows the individual to harmoniously manage the Chi (the energy from which the universe first resulted).  The energy flows between the Universe and the individual, as well as within the person. Chi-Kung hence connects the universe/nature with the person (at cellular level), as well as what is macro and micro in scale. Qigong consists of sequences of smooth, quiet, yet precise movements that are accompanied by strict observance of breathing. Consciousness in breathing is a spiritual exercise in itself as it is about inward focus, awareness of being, feeling grounded to earth through our own body. Chi-Kung is a personal discipline that allows us to self-regulate and regenerate the body, mind and soul. It is one of the mechanisms through which we can heal our spirit and consequently our whole being.
Chi-Kung contains several exercises and systems, one of them is the Microcosmic Orbit, which consists of a circle formed by two meridians through which the Qi flows along the front/back of the body, on a vertical axis. Meditating on the Microcosmic Orbit means that you are seated, relaxed, with your tongue pressed against the upper mandible (so that the two meridians are connected to each other), whilst you visualize the flow of the Qi through the meridians, reaching all organs, all cells (the flow through this channels brings as a consequence the flow of the Chi through the other 12 meridians associated with organs in the body and, also, the flow through an energy path related to the soul). Meditating on the Microcosmic Orbit may be accompanied by chanting of mantras or special sounds and must be preceded by the practice of the Six Healing Sounds. This is a process by which the excess heat produced by inner organs (the accumulation of heat results of physical/emotional distress) is released through the digestive tube. This meditation will bring about cell regeneration, harmonization of the Chi.
Another form of inner and applied inner work is the applied Zen Martial Arts to Medicine. It is based on the fact that Martial Arts (MA) contribute to positive changes in the body's natural healing processes, as they strongly influence the function of most organ systems, as well as chemistry of our brain. Scientific studies agree the MA practitioner shows brain neurotransmitter balance, mood elevation, enhanced self-esteem, lower anxiety levels, resistance to depression, improved coping ability. Moreover, heart rate is slowed, hypertensive blood pressure is reduced toward normal, and improvement is verified in blood sugar, blood lipids, blood supply to muscles, in the function of the liver in storing carbohydrate.  These changes translate into overall risk reduction of illnesses as type 2 diabetes, coronary heart disease, chronic respiratory disease, osteoporosis, obesity, and anxiety, mild to moderate mental depression, chronic fatigue, and breast and colon cancer.
Observe, in face of this data, that it does make sense that Chi-Kung also bring profound positive change in our mind, body and spirit. All of these physical activities are sound proof that health is spiritual based: once there is personal discipline associated with education (physical, emotional, spiritual, artist, scientific) we are indeed our own healer. Anyway the scientific discipline of psicofisioneuroimunologie proves all that.
MA training combines dosage, distance (or time), intensity, frequency and technique. MA are dose responsive in the sense that there is an optimal maximal level of training: if it surpassed then the body will decline in physical and mental health. MA training movements are classified as aerobic, strength, stretching, skill and fun. Of these 5 categories, only the aerobic is able to change metabolism and chemistry in such a way as to bring about a wide range of health gains in the practitioner (other than MA, running, skating, aerobic walking are also in this category). These health gains include the rebalancing of the sympathetic (fight and flight) and parasympathetic (rest and repair) halves of the autonomic nervous system (increased parasympathetic tone was acknowledged in MA trained subjects). Moreover, it is also proved that the MA practitioner shows higher levels of serotonin and dopamine, quicker mental reaction time, improved fluid intelligence quotients, rebalance of sleep/wake cycles and improvement of the immune system integrity.
In cases where there is less elasticity of the air sacs and the entire chest wall, it has been proved that rigorous MA training results in less dyspnoea and increased respiratory capacity. Although the myocardium responds to exercise differently, even in coronary disease accompanied by partly blocked coronary arteries, our KatDoFit training together with a low-fat diet, result in increased opening of the blocked vessels. MA practitioner exhibit greatly increased capacity of the liver to storage glycogen (hence lowering the release of glucose into the bloodstream),  as well as a consistent lowering of fat-to-lean ratio (translating in subjects that were lean before starting a KataDoFit program, later reporting losing inches around thighs, waist, hips, chest, upper arms without change in weight). Adequate aerobic exercise training keeps resistance levels high, hastens recovery from illness and injury.
We have mentioned important improvement in a person's health due to practices like Chi-Kung and Martial Arts, as seen from a pure biological standpoint: blood pressure, heart rate, sugar blood level, cholesterol and so on. The spiritual impact of these practices is also huge, as the practitioner is involved in searching for their Inner Mentor, finding awareness, feeling connected to the Universe, nourishing their whole being (as an undivided entity which depends and influences all that exists around them), accepting and facing their emotional state as opposed to invalidating it, devoting time to be quite and on their own, maintaining the inward focus, finding a better understanding of their intentions, enforcing discipline that will allow them to understand what needs to be changed in order to regenerate/heal.
Mind Body Spirit Work also includes outer work which may involve relationships, family, work, the place where we live, our community. Frequently these matters are relevant in Life Mentoring (LM) and therapy (seen here as a general medical practice that seeks to help people in emotional/inner turmoil). There are three key factors that separate LM from therapy. Firstly, the Mentor is a professional whose goal is to empower the client, help them connect to their Spiritual Self so that they will have insight as to what holds negative impact, how those issues can be turned into opportunities, which options are too considered, set an action plan and hold the client accountable (the GROW and SMART models are key in this work). In Therapy, the professional defines and implements the treatment plan, thus removing initiative from the client (various schools of Therapy utilize different takes on the professional's authority in the process). Also: in Life Mentoring Method® approach the client is to leave the process as a person that is able to lead their life, whereas in therapy there seems to be no prospective of the client leaving. Secondly, LM is about knowing where the client wants/needs to go, starting from a relatively stable position they hold now. Therapy, on the other hand, is about what is holding the person back. So LM looks at now/future whilst Therapy dwells mostly on the past. Thirdly, the LM client wants to achieve a particular/objective goal (a goal that can be completely physical like 'feeling stronger, feeling fit') whilst the Therapist's client needs to address an issue/problem (there is ambiguity as to what is an issue as opposed to a problem).


An important aspect that separates LM from Therapy is that the client in the latter may have no control whatsoever of their emotions, may hold a mental health issue, may suffer drug/alcohol/medication dependency, and may have a history of abuse. A LM client is a person with a cognitive stable base which allows them to set a path (rational, spiritual and physical) from here towards the better person in them, grounded on their own skills, abilities. That cognitive stable base of the LM client enables the professional to apply Goal Mapping exercises, ask the client to keep a reflexive diary, draw up an action plan, and engage in scheduling exercises. These are instruments that help the LM client in a tightly focused process to address their issues as swiftly and efficiently as possible. In LMM we believe that the Body is the true instrument through which we can reach emotion, spirit, change, health. Therefore we believe in nutrition, in physical training and education. Naturally, disciplines like Yoga, Chi-Kung, and Martial Arts require that the client has a stable core from which to evolve. That is another reason why LMM is not adequate for clients with deep structural problems - these people need to be referred to other health professionals. LMM shares the belief that Mind Body Spirit work also involves Art, journaling, science ... again these are personal disciplines that cannot be asked of person with characteristics that are adequate only to Therapy.

In Therapy there is a range of psychotherapeutic techniques and beliefs whose common thread is to assist the client to accept, manage or solve their problems as swiftly as is possible- the 'Brief Interventions'. They are time-effective techniques (opposed to long-term counselling relationships), solution-based (rather than problem oriented), less concerned with how problems arouse than what is currently preventing them to be overcome.  'Brief Interventions' is a non-directive counselling, an active process that is geared toward the now and future. It seeks to aid clients to sort their problems out and move on with their lives. It is apparent that Brief Interventions' holds proximity to LM in fundamental concepts. Moreover, the Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), is one of the techniques in 'Brief Intervention Therapy'. Through CBT, the Mentor can help the client notice and avoid the pitfalls of 'cognitive distortions' such as labelling, fortune-telling, catastrophizing. The individual is encouraged to identify their core beliefs, challenge their thinking, turning what if into then what and consequently empowering themselves from negative thinking and beliefs.  This process enclosed in CBT is important in LM thus establishing proximity between these practices and Therapy.
In itself, the search for spiritual health (and, as follows, all health), the search for awareness, for clean positive intentions towards all, the path towards our inner Mentor requires that we keep an open mind and heart. 

In this sense, the LMM does not place judgement on Therapy - LMM is open to positive influences that might arise from it and embodies that in the feeling 'I'm a LM but I'm not blind to Therapy or any kind of activity that is meant to nurture an individual into inner growth, spiritual health, wholeness with their body, mind and the universe.'


This is the Life Mentoring Method®.

Sunday, 22 February 2015

Life reaches our Being

Life reaches our Being with ultimate closeness when we experience feeling. Here resides the importance of learning
how to breath deeply,
               how to eat wisely,
                     how to engage in the moment,
                                           how to appreciate silence as well as sound,
how to face apparent failure with a smile that anticipates understanding and inner growth.


All these teachings become real through adequate training of our body. Involve in practicing movement that is unknown to you up to now: challenge your body and trust it to generate the feeling of renewal, strength, happiness, grace, determination, joy, inner peace. Also failure followed by learning and triumph.


The Life Mentoring Method®  gives you education which proves that Life is, indeed, the result of your practices, your behavior, your thoughts and emotions, as well as your hard work which is accompanied by joy.

by Sofi Naik


LMM Reviewed

Life Mentoring Method® Reviewed

By Profº Pepe C.

Spirit is everything to health. Every illness derivate from some disturb on spirit and the cure is always at the spirit too. But one thing need to be clear: body is one thing, spirit is other totally different. So if we get connected to earth/god/universe and if we get a full commitment to our inner mentor we will get not only a well strong spirit but also a strong and healthy life and body. The way? Not getting blind by drugs, media or illusions and really know ourselves, our real I. Remember, changes begin inside, outside will be just the mirror. Applying a Mind Body Spirit work with spiritual focus will bring us regeneration of our health, knowledge of the real I and make us see the INner potential
One way to do it is by the Chi-Kung that is just an ancient form of Taoism. With this we can manage the Chi (energy from universe inside us, our energy). Chi-Kung connects the individual to the universe in every possible scale (macroscopic and microscopic). The Chi-Kung consists on making the energy flows between an orbit (called microcosmic) that is formed by two meridians in the back and front of the body. Tongue on the top of the mouth, make a perfect circle and meditate. This will help the Chi flows between the 12 meridians and regenerate all the organs.
But there’s another way of making this. By the Zen Martial Arts. Apply the martial arts spirit to life, the Zen to your soul. It will provides strong body, strong mind in a strong soul. And actually it will help on some diseases as anxiety, diabetes, and cholesterol and so on. And in one thing it will help too: we will get a perception of life, time and space like never before. We will have more in making less and chilling. The practicing will promote high levels of dopamine, serotonin and a quick thinking as well as good waking up/sleeping times and a higher immunity system security.
Mind Body Spirit Work can also include outer work which may involve relationships with others. Applying some Therapy there is lots of techniques and beliefs called 'Brief Interventions'. They are time-effective techniques, solution-based concerned on what is currently preventing to overcome some issues.  'Brief Interventions' is a non-directive counselling. It seeks to aid clients to sort their problems out and move on with their lives. Through Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, the Mentor can help the client by notice that the individual can identify their beliefs and challenge their thinking. This is a quite important process because establishes proximity between these practices and Therapy.
So as U can see, is all about the spirit. Make spirit changes applied to some body changes and a new level of orientation/focus and your Inner potential will be awesome and increase. Applying to life is hard but when you do it, it just getting you connected to the real you in a connection that includes body, soul and mind.
Coordination and review by Prof’ Pedro Proff

Monday, 9 February 2015

F.E.A.R

In LMM® we believe that FEAR is addressed, digested, incorporated into yoUr personal evolution and strength if you educate yourself to
Feel
Emotions
A
Reality
 
We know, through our Method, that emotions reflect the reality that yoU hold within. The truth ... in your mind, heart, soul, spirit and body. 
Indeed, emotional distress is a consequence of conflict ... between what you are doing and that what you actually needed to do!! 
On the other hand, health is a consequence of facing your emotional state, coping and then acting accordingly. 
In this sense: emotion is the reality which we, so often, try to numb, disguise and run from. Running from emotion brings about anxiety, turmoil and, normally, illness.
Life Mentoring Method® holds several procedures that you can bring into your life. These personal processes follow from Life Mentoring, from Physical Training, from Art and from Science. Once these actions belong to your being, to your personal hygiene in life ... inward focus will occur. 
Inward focus means awareness with respect to personal ethics, discipline in actions and thoughts. It brings about insight: the ability to identify what is actually important and requires change. Thus, inward focus empowers you ... to address, challenge and overcome FEAR. 

Friday, 6 February 2015

LMM Reviewed


Life Mentoring Method® Reviewed

By Profª Sofi Naik

 

Mind body spirit medicine uses applied spirituality to bring about health. This concept medicine states that all illnesses result of a spiritual disturbance and complete healing of the illness can only be achieved through healing at the spiritual level.

Although conventional medical therapies have much control over the superficial expression of health in the physical body, they are not able to address the deeper spiritual root of each illness with the use of pills or surgery. The truth is that that inner turmoil will be (somewhat) numb and will find a new form to express itself in that person's life, if left unaddressed. Mind Body Spirit Work is the discipline that truly engages the spiritual base of the illness/distress/unbalance. It is based on two important principles. Firstly: by sincerely wishing to connect to Earth/Universe/God (whichever of these entities relates to the person in question), we cultivate our Spiritual Self (our inner Mentor). Secondly: the quality and depth of our work towards our Inner Mentor is determined by the profound understanding that, somewhere along the line, we will feel exactly as we caused other (any and all) beings to feel.

To connect spiritually, we need to maintain truthful/loving intentions (empathy) towards all people, in all situations (including ourselves, our thoughts and feelings). To do so: our attention is to be focused inward; we must be aware that the mind creates many false stories and hides what really matters, whereas the heart never lies. It is our ability to feel that reveals the truth of our intentions. On the one hand any uncomfortable emotion is a sign that we have or had non-loving/non-truthful intentions. On the other hand, we must learn to validate our emotional state, we need to accept the inner discomfort and stay with the feeling inside of us. Eluding ourselves with busyness, drugs, medication, lies, food, social media and so forth are escape mechanisms that will allow our emotional conflict to eat us away from the inside: our perception will cause us to have negative thoughts, we will be overwhelmed, physical issues will arise (tiredness, pain, and indigestion). If signs of inner conflict are ignored, then structural illness occurs (tumours grow, organs deteriorate, arteries get blocked). Although these are the diseases that conventional medicine can modify more effectually, we must remember that the root cause is on the spiritual level. Instead of jumping to only fix that body part which is damaged, we must cultivate our Inner Mentor so as to gain insight into what needs changing.

Mind Body Spirit work consists of three areas, all of which must be pursued 24/7. Outer work is to review our life, identify and change all that lies outside of ourselves (relationships, job, and home place) and has a negative impact on our emotional/spiritual health. Inner work consists of personal practices that will nourish our being whilst improving our focus inward, such as Yoga, Chi-Kung, Art, Journaling, Meditation, exercising outdoors in Nature. Applied inner work consists in maintaining the inward focus as we go about our day (awareness), finding a better understanding of our emotions and intentions, being clearer in the diagnosis of non-loving aspects in our life. Persistent application of Mind Body Spirit work, with a spiritual focal point, will bring about INsight, the experience of health and regeneration, knowledge of ourselves as loving souls, release of a burden that you did not realized that you carried.

One of the personal practices amongst inner work, is Chi-Kung (Qigong): an ancient form of Chinese Art, rooted on Taoism. Chi-Kung allows the individual to harmoniously manage the Chi (the energy from which the universe first resulted).  The energy flows between the Universe and the individual, as well as within the person. Chi-Kung hence connects the universe/nature with the person (at cellular level), as well as what is macro and micro in scale. Qigong consists of sequences of smooth, quiet, yet precise movements that are accompanied by strict observance of breathing. Consciousness in breathing is a spiritual exercise in itself as it is about inward focus, awareness of being, feeling grounded to earth through our own body. Chi-Kung is a personal discipline that allows us to self-regulate and regenerate the body, mind. It is one of the mechanisms through which we can heal our spirit and consequently our whole being.

Chi-Kung contains several exercises and systems, one of them is the Microcosmic Orbit, which consists of a circle formed by two meridians through which the Qi flows along the front/back of the body, on a vertical axis (Conception and Governal vessels). Meditating on the Microcosmic Orbit means that you are seated, relaxed, with your tongue pressed against the upper mandible (so that the two meridians are connected to each other), whilst you visualize the flow of the Qi through the meridians, reaching all organs, all cells (the flow through Conception and Governal vessels brings as a consequence the flow of the Chi through the other 12 meridians associated with organs in the body and, also, the flow through an energy path related to the soul). Meditating on the Microcosmic Orbit may be accompanied by chanting of mantras and must be preceded by the practice of the Six Healing Sounds. This is a process by which the excess heat produced by inner organs (the accumulation of heat results of physical/emotional distress) is released through the digestive tube. This meditation will bring about cell regeneration, harmonization of the Chi.

Another form of inner and applied inner work (areas of he Mind Body Spirit Work) is the Zen Martial Arts Medicine. It is based on the fact that Martial Arts (MA) contribute to positive changes in the body's natural healing processes, as they strongly influence the function of most organ systems, as well as chemistry of our brain. Scientific studies agree the MA practitioner shows brain neurotransmitter balance, mood elevation, enhanced self-esteem, lower anxiety levels, resistance to depression, improved coping ability. Moreover, heart rate is slowed, hypertensive blood pressure is reduced toward normal, and improvement is verified in blood sugar, blood lipids, blood supply to muscles, in the function of the liver in storing carbohydrate.  These changes translate into overall risk reduction of illnesses as type 2 diabetes, coronary heart disease, chronic respiratory disease, osteoporosis, obesity, and anxiety, mild to moderate mental depression, chronic fatigue, breast and colon cancer.

Observe, in face of this data, that it does make sense that Chi-Kung (and Meditation on the Microcosmic Orbit) also bring profound positive change in our mind, body and spirit. All of these physical activities are sound proof that health is spiritual based: once there is personal discipline associated with education (physical, emotional, spiritual, artist, scientific) we are indeed our own healer.

MA training combines dosage, distance (or time), intensity, frequency and technique. MA are dose responsive in the sense that there is an optimal maximal level of training: if it surpassed then the body will decline in physical and mental health. MA training movements are classified as aerobic, strength, stretching, skill and fun. Of these 5 categories, only the aerobic is able to change metabolism and chemistry in such a way as to bring about a wide range of health gains in the practitioner (other than MA, running, skating, aerobic walking are also in this category). These health gains include the rebalancing of the sympathetic (fight and flight) and parasympathetic (rest and repair) halves of the autonomic nervous system (increased parasympathetic tone was acknowledged in MA trained subjects). Moreover, it is also proved that the MA practitioner shows higher levels of serotonin and dopamine, quicker mental reaction time, improved fluid intelligence quotients, rebalance of sleep/wake cycles and improvement of the immune system integrity.

In cases where there is less elasticity of the air sacs and the entire chest wall, it has been proved that rigorous MA training results in less dyspnea and increased respiratory capacity. Although the myocardium responds to exercise differently, even in coronary disease accompanied by partly blocked coronary arteries, Kardio Kickboxing or KatDoFit training together with a low-fat diet, result in increased opening of the blocked vessels. MA practitioner exhibit greatly increased capacity of the liver to storage glycogen (hence lowering the release of glucose into the bloodstream),  as well as a consistent lowering of fat-to-lean ratio (translating in subjects that were lean before starting a Kardio Karate program, later reporting losing inches around thighs, waist, hips, chest, upper arms without change in weight). Adequate aerobic exercise training keeps resistance levels high, hastens recovery from illness and injury.

We have mentioned important improvement in a person's health due to practices like Chi-Kung and Martial Arts, as seen from a pure biological standpoint: blood pressure, heart rate, sugar blood level, cholesterol and so on. The spiritual impact of these practices is also huge, as the practitioner is involved in searching for their Inner Mentor, finding awareness, feeling connected to the Universe, nourishing their whole being (as an undivided entity which depends and influences all that exists around them), accepting and facing their emotional state as opposed to invalidating it, devoting time to be quite and on their own, maintaining the inward focus, finding a better understanding of their intentions, enforcing discipline that will allow them to understand what needs to be changed in order to regenerate/heal.

Mind Body Spirit Work also includes outer work which may involve relationships, family, work, the place where we live, our community. Frequently these matters are relevant in Life Coaching (LC), Life Mentoring (LM) and therapy (seen here as a general medical practice that seeks to help people in emotional/inner turmoil). There are three key factors that separate LM (or LC) from therapy. Firstly, the Mentor is a professional whose goal is to empower the client, help them connect to their Spiritual Self so that they will have insight as to what holds negative impact, how those issues can be turned into opportunities, which options are to considered, set an action plan and hold the client accountable (the GROW model is key in this work). In Therapy, the professional defines and implements the treatment plan, thus removing initiative from the client (various schools of Therapy utilize different takes on the professional's authority in the process). Also: in LC/LM the client is to leave the process as a person that is able to lead their life, whereas in therapy there seems to be no prospective of the client leaving. Secondly, LM is about knowing where the client wants/needs to go, starting from a relatively stable position they hold now. Therapy, on the other hand, is about what is holding the person back. So LM looks at now/future whilst Therapy dwells mostly on the past. Thirdly, the LM client wants to achieve a particular/objective goal (a goal that can be completely physical like 'feeling stronger, feeling fit') whilst the Therapist's client needs to address an issue/problem (there is ambiguity as to what is an issue as opposed to a problem).

An important aspect that separates LC/LM from Therapy is that the client in the latter may have no control whatsoever of their emotions, may hold a mental health issue, may suffer drug/alcohol/medication dependency, and may have a history of abuse. A LC/LM client is a person with a cognitive stable base which allows them to set a path (rational, spiritual and physical) from here towards the better person in them, grounded on their own skills, abilities. That cognitive stable base of the LC/LM client enables the professional to apply the GROW Model, Goal Mapping exercise, ask the client to keep a reflexive diary, draw up an action plan, engage in scheduling exercises. These are instruments that help the LC/LM client in a tightly focused process to address their issues as swiftly and efficiently as possible. In LMM we believe that the Body is the true instrument through which we can reach emotion, spirit, change, health. Therefore we believe in nutrition, in physical training and education. Naturally, disciplines like Yoga, Chi-Kung, and Martial Arts require that the client has a stable core from which to evolve. That is another reason why LMM is not adequate for clients with deep structural problems- these people need to be referred to other health professionals. LMM shares the belief that Mind Body Spirit work also involves Art, journaling, science ... again these are personal disciplines that cannot be asked of person with characteristics that are adequate only to Therapy.

In Therapy there is a range of psychotherapeutic techniques and beliefs whose common thread is to assist the client to accept, manage or solve their problems as swiftly as is possible- the 'Brief Interventions'. They are time-effective techniques (opposed to long-term counselling relationships), solution-based (rather than problem oriented), less concerned with how problems arouse than what is currently preventing them to be overcome.  'Brief Interventions' is a non-directive counselling, an active process that is geared toward the now and future. It seeks to aid clients to sort their problems out and move on with their lives. It is apparent that Brief Interventions' holds proximity to LC/LM in fundamental concepts. Moreover, the Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), is one of the techniques in 'Brief Intervention Therapy'. Through CBT, the Mentor can help the client notice and avoid the pitfalls of 'cognitive distortions' such as labelling, fortune-telling, catastrophizing. The individual is encouraged to identify their core beliefs, challenge their thinking, turning what if into then what and consequently empowering themselves from negative thinking/ beliefs.  This process enclosed in CBT is important in LC/LM thus establishing proximity between these practices and Therapy.

In itself, the search for spiritual health (and, as follows, all health), the search for awareness, for clean positive intentions towards all, the path towards our inner Mentor requires that we keep an open mind and heart. In this sense, the LMM does not place judgement on Therapy - LMM is open to positive influences that might arise from it and embodies that in the feeling 'I'm a LM but I'm not blind to Therapy or any kind of activity that is meant to nurture an individual into inner growth, spiritual health, wholeness with their body, mind and the universe.'


 

Coordination and review by Prof’ Pedro Proff

Monday, 22 December 2014

From Math to YoUr Life: The Wonder in Zero

From Math to YoUr Life: The Wonder in Zero: Zero is an object. An awesome construction of human mind. I know that I'm I bit odd ... I suppose that you fe...





by Sofi Naik

Mentored by PPROFF

Saturday, 20 December 2014

Little Hell - Hurting For Pleasure !?!?!?!?!


"Sometimes we hurt the ones we love the most just for the "pleasure" of beeing heard. But then we forget how to talk, how to be a "non-offensive" person and we just do crazy stuff. But in those crazy stuff there's always a bright side of living and loving. Even in those difficult times we can be ourselfs and learn with others. There's always a choice, there's always a middle term for everyone, everywhere in everytime. There's always a point where we can do our choices and have the real necessary support from the ones we love without beeing condescedent and agressive. There's always peace everywhere but specially inside us." - Pep' C.

Monday, 13 October 2014

NT 4 LIFE ® - Nature for Life


The True Natural Training, wild or urban,  teaches people from all ages. If you think to lie outside the age range, don’t worry, speak with us, we’ll train you too, but NT 4 LIFE is not just about physical training, it's about interaction, interdependence, contemplation, breathing, is about being naturally part of nature.

Point being, nature and movement is for 
EVERYONE.



NATURE AND MOVEMENT ARE FUN.

About the training part, U can be fit naturally. NO NEED GYMS.

 Not just the already young and fit, or old and experienced. Movement is a vital part of our nature and we all deserve to have the freedom of movement. You deserve to be able to move efficiently and smoothly through any environment whether you’re racing up a flight of stairs, or playing Indiana Jones in a forest, or trekking, or a photographic safari, or a outdoor session of yoga or chi kung ,we  leave you with your imagination to visualize the potential of our program and what it can do for you.

NT4Life - Nature for Life is the art of expressing yourself in your environment without limitation. It is a discipline and aims to incorporate everything that is useful. Is a holistic training approach using movement, intelligence, intuition, creativity and instinct, that developed out of  a natural obstacle course training. can be urban, mountain, sea...

NT4LIFE can include running, climbing, swinging, swimming, biking, martial arts, yoga, chi kung, free diving, cross mountain, jumping,  meditation and contemplation, wildlife observation, photography and more, depending on what movement or activity is deemed most suitable for the given situation and/or goal.



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Thursday, 4 September 2014

Surf and Ocean X Cystic Fibrosis

To some people, surfing is a way of life. From birth, they are taught that the ocean is a resource, a place of healing, and something you never turn your back on. The lives of most surfers consists of traveling around the world in search of the perfect waves. They have built careers from it. Without the ocean, their lives would be incomplete. To cystic fibrosis patients, the ocean is something entirely different, it is a way to prolong their lives. For years, researchers have explored the connection between Cystic Fibrosis and the ocean. It was noted that in Australia, kids with Cystic Fibrosis who surfed all the time had better lung functions then the kids who where not in the ocean on a regular basis. They attributed this to the fact that the oceans high content of saline helps expel the secretions from the lungs. In 2007, brothers, James and Charles Dunlop read an article about this connection. Being life long surfers themselves, decided to do something about it. It started first as just a simple idea: Get kids with cystic fibrosis surfing. What resulted was something incredible. Cystic fibrosis patients have to schedule their lives around hours of breathing treatments, chest therapy, and about 45 pills a day in order to stay healthy. Surfing is the one treatment that has proven to help cystic fibrosis patients more than ever. The oceans high content of saline acts as a natural lubricant which clears their lungs and makes breathing easier.



Tuesday, 26 August 2014

Goal Setting and Routines



I have heard many people talk about settings goals.  Setting goals is very important, but goals themselves do not ensure success.
Goals give us a way to measure and define success, but not to actually achieve it.
We do have to start with good goals, so let’s talk about what a good goal is.




A good goal is like good done criteria for a backlog. 
A good goal is one that is:
  • Measurable
  • Has a time constraint
  • Achievable without being overwhelming
  • Sufficiently broken down, (it is a single thing, not a collection of things.)
If you don’t define a good goal, the chances of achieving it go down drastically.  If your goal is not clear cut enough, you may not even be able to tell when it is achieved.
In my world, good goals are things like:
  • By Dec 10th I will lose 20 pounds.
  • I will read one technical book each month.
  • I will create and launch an iPhone application by Nov 15th.
Bad goals are things like:
  • I will improve my diet
  • I will start lifting weights
  • I will improve my SQL skills

Goals aren’t enough

Once you have good goals, you should be good to go right?
Wrong!
How many times have you set good goals that you never achieved?  Always something seems to come up, or the timing isn’t right, etc.
The problem is, life happens.  You have to deal with all kinds of issues you can’t predict, so you don’t end up having the time to achieve your goals.
You usually don’t have anything on the line, so nothing is forcing you to complete the goals.
First let’s talk about the issue of life happening and disrupting you from achieving your goals.
There is a simple solution for this problem…
Make your goals part of your life.  Rarely does life happen to me in such a way that it prevents me from doing things like showering, eating, brushing my teeth or going to work.  (I suppose now that I am down in Florida, a hurricane could happen and cause all that.)  In general though, we operate as humans best on routines.
I have found time and time again that the key to achieving goals is to build them into your daily routine.  Having a routine is critical to being successful.
Don’t believe me?  Think about the biggest losers you know in your life.  You know who I am talking about, that friend from high school that still doesn’t have a real job, sometimes sleeps on your couch, wakes up at noon, etc.
Routine or no routine?
Now think about the most successful people you know.
Routine or no routine?

Routine disruption

Part of the reason my posts stopped for the last few weeks is that I had my routine disrupted.  Back in Idaho before I moved, I had a pretty solid routine, it went something like this:
Every week day: Egg white + Spinach breakfast, Spinach + light soup lunch, Steamed Chicken + vegetable dinner, read 15-30 minutes technical book.
Monday: Lift chest and biceps, do prep work for Pluralsight, cook up chicken for the rest of the week
Tuesday: Run 5k, record for Pluralsight
Wednesday: Lift back and legs, do Android or iPhone app work
Thursday: Run 5k, prep work for Pluralsight
Friday: Lift shoulders and triceps
Saturday: Run 5k, record for Pluralsight and or do Android or iPhone work
Sunday: Write blog post for the week
That was my basic routine.  You can probably figure out my goals just by looking at my routine.
When I moved, this got disrupted, but I am getting back into a routine similar to this one again.  Once a good routine is established, life happens around your routine.
I usually stick with this basic routine and modify it based on the priorities of my goals.  At different points, blogging was a higher priority, so it took up a few more slots.  When I was really focused on getting my Android app done, that took more slots.

When you have a routine, you are making small steps on a regular basis towards your goals.

Wednesday, 6 August 2014

Addicted to Your Smart Phone, TV, PC and Digital Gadgets?

Time for a Digital Detox

How many times per day do you look at your phone? We are a generation on information overload and hooked on technology. Many people are unable and afraid to go even a minute without the "smartphone life support" system.

Quality communication and relational connections with family and friends is lost as more and more kids and adults become engrossed and obsessed with their smart phones.

Did you know that high frequency of screen time (cell phone, computer, iPad, social media, television) disrupts sleep, increases psychological stress, fatigue, hormone problems, and symptoms of depression, anxiety and mental health problems?
Cell phone, iPad, WiFi and computer use is particularly harmful to fetuses, babies and young children because their brains are still developing. Overuse of the internet and multitasking in children has also been linked with social, emotional and relational underdevelopment and a chronically distracted view of the world.

A digital detox is good for your health & your relationships!
1.     Connect and communicate with people "old school" style
2.     Spend time, observe & listen to the beauty of nature
3.     Limit screen time to certain hours of the day
4.     Start and end every day by reading or listening to something spiritual. Many kids (& adults) nowadays have zero foundation of daily prayer, spirituality or connection with God.
5.     Never sleep with your cell phone by your pillow or on your night stand.
6.     Charge your cell phone in another room, never your bedroom.
7.     Unplug/shutdown all electronics by 8:00 p.m. every night.
8.     Turn off all cell phones, computers & TVs during meal time & bedtime
9.     Read a book, play a board game or take a walk (without your phone or iPod)
10.             Dare to be different. Don't follow the crowd!
11.             Don't subject yourself to negative news or media.
12.             Take the DeTox challenge & watch your life change
13.             Focus on what truly matters
14.             BE present. BE attentive. BE mindful. BE hUman.
15.             Simply BE.
BENEFITS OF A DIGITAL DETOX
·         Better sleep
·         Less stress & anxiety
·         Increased energy
·         Enhanced communication skills
·         Improved emotional well-being
·         Rest for your brain from incessant stimuli
·         Recharged brain function & capacity
·         More meaningful relationships